On the other hand, my friends who are Biden supporters seem blissfully unaware of the stupid and ugly things that he says. And he has said a lot. This is not "deflection," not "making a false equivalence," not "whataboutism." It's just the truth. Whether Biden's offensive statements are fewer in quantity or less offensive/stupid in quality than Trump's is a thing we could discuss, but it's not relevant here.
On the one hand, partisans tend to pick up on the outrageous things the other side's guy says, and ignore the outrageous things their guy says. As Paul Simon wrote,
All lies in jestBut I thought of another thing recently. It's not just what somebody says. What other people -- people who report and comment and publicize -- say about what somebody said, matters. It frames the event. It adjusts the focus. And the reporter/commentator/publicist has a point of view, too. Sometimes, an axe to grind. This is something I learned from reading the book of Judges in the Bible.
till a man hears what he wants to hear
and disregards the rest.
The recurring theme of Judges is, "In those days, there was no king in Israel; everyone did what was right in his own eyes." In other words, the writer of Judges was a monarchist. He thought it was important to have a king. A king would stop all these outrages he's telling about. (Sure, he would.) I'm not saying the author is reporting anything he doesn't know or think is true, but he picks and chooses his stories to fit his narrative. He plays up some details, and plays down others. He has a point of view, an axe to grind. And even if you accept the Bible as true and authoritative, you've got to keep the author's POV in mind when you read this book -- and when you preach on it.
So when my eyes are assaulted by news stories and commentary and social media about the latest awfulness coming from Trump, I tend to wait to see if another shoe (one being deliberately withheld by the reporter/commentator/poster) is going to drop. So often, the first story told is not the whole story. That said, my personal opinion on this election is that both candidates are doing their level best to lose. Still, I'll take GOP control over the Democrats any day. I understand that other people see it the other way round. Spare me both pious denunciations and unctuous excuses either way. These are the guys we've got, God help us. We have to choose between them (or vote third party), but we don't have to like either guy all that much.