Finally, I called her to task for a post I found deeply offensive. I thought she was just basically clueless and insensitive, so I tried to engage her on it instead of merely blasting her. If I hadn't invested something in having an LJ relationship with her, I wouldn't have said anything at all. I got, in return, an insulting reply.
I asked collinsmom what to do. I fretted and fumed. And finally, I replied to the comment that I found insulting, with an emphatic good-bye.
I hate all this drama.